No external relay for the ABS on this car as far as I'm aware. Main fuse is normally located in the battery-mounted fusebox, but its usually a 50A maxi-fuse, or fusable link, depending on age and exact version of car.
aye, according to my manual its on the battery posstive terminal. there are 2 on there own next to each other, under the bigger flap of the 2, and its the one on the right as you face the battery from the front:thumbs: and yes its 60a. see pic below.
On some versions there is a 10a safty fuse located above the main fuse block (the one on the drivers side) above it there are 3 little rows of fuses (you may need to get down on you hands and knees as there a fair way up) if you have that one, its in the bottom block of the 3, 1st on the left:thumbs: