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If you need advice on anything other than Alfa's here's the thread for you...I'll start off:
Dear AO aunt:
My wife and I are expecting a child in August, our rent contract ends in July, we have been looking at houses and all we saw was someones excuse for a roof on walls:tut: Our great friend is selling his house at the moment, and we quite like his house, and he has a flat at the back of the house which he rents out to tenants, he gave us R50 000 off the valued price because were friends.
Now a couple of things needs to be taken into consideration here...
1) I'll be a 1st time home buyer
2) I've been pre-approved
3) Because I work for SASOL, I get prime -1
4) My wife will be leaving her job at the end of June for maternity leave, but will not be going back there again, so maybe she'll be jobless come 2011
5) We are going to be a single income family - :wow:
6) I can just just afford the house, but don't want my family's lifestyle to be cramped.
7) Jobs in Secunda are like 85 Guilietta clear side indicators...you don't get them!
here's the issue since we expect another Turner in our lives...
Do you think this is something I should not let slip? With my current rent I'll have to add almost R4000 to make the bond + medical aid for the new born and monthly expenses for the new born + about R800 water/electricity will reeeeeeeely force my budget to the point where I won't be able to;
1) Save
2) Have money to spend...
If my wife goes back to work, we will have cash available to save and some cash to spend etc...
We have decided that she MUST go back to work but for 4 months I'll be carrying the bulk of the payments that need to be made, its a bit hectic, but this is an opportunity that cannot pass, its not everyday that my wife and I both like a house, that's safe, neat, loads of space for Alfa's, 1200m2 of land filled with grass etc...
Advice - should I take the plunge and live bad for 4 months and hope I get a raise and a promotion come next year and hope my wife can go back to hell (work) or should we stick it out and first make sure all our ducks are in a row financially and only then start looking for a house that we can AFFORD comfortably?
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Dear AO aunt:
My wife and I are expecting a child in August, our rent contract ends in July, we have been looking at houses and all we saw was someones excuse for a roof on walls:tut: Our great friend is selling his house at the moment, and we quite like his house, and he has a flat at the back of the house which he rents out to tenants, he gave us R50 000 off the valued price because were friends.
Now a couple of things needs to be taken into consideration here...
1) I'll be a 1st time home buyer
2) I've been pre-approved
3) Because I work for SASOL, I get prime -1
4) My wife will be leaving her job at the end of June for maternity leave, but will not be going back there again, so maybe she'll be jobless come 2011
5) We are going to be a single income family - :wow:
6) I can just just afford the house, but don't want my family's lifestyle to be cramped.
7) Jobs in Secunda are like 85 Guilietta clear side indicators...you don't get them!
here's the issue since we expect another Turner in our lives...
Do you think this is something I should not let slip? With my current rent I'll have to add almost R4000 to make the bond + medical aid for the new born and monthly expenses for the new born + about R800 water/electricity will reeeeeeeely force my budget to the point where I won't be able to;
1) Save
2) Have money to spend...
If my wife goes back to work, we will have cash available to save and some cash to spend etc...
We have decided that she MUST go back to work but for 4 months I'll be carrying the bulk of the payments that need to be made, its a bit hectic, but this is an opportunity that cannot pass, its not everyday that my wife and I both like a house, that's safe, neat, loads of space for Alfa's, 1200m2 of land filled with grass etc...
Advice - should I take the plunge and live bad for 4 months and hope I get a raise and a promotion come next year and hope my wife can go back to hell (work) or should we stick it out and first make sure all our ducks are in a row financially and only then start looking for a house that we can AFFORD comfortably?
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