I have decided that I will propose to my girlfriend when we are celebrating my 30th in Glencoe at the end of May. Should I choose the ring? We seem to have simlar taste in rings when jokingly looking in jewellers windows or use a joke/naff ring to propose with and then go and choose the ring together. I'm leaning towards me choosing the engagement ring so it's a true gift from me to her, with her obviously choosing the wedding ring. Any thoughts/suggestions/advice?