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Whilst enjoying a meal at my local restaurant I was struck by the arrogant selfish attitude of some drivers. Across the road is a small Sainsbury's local with parking for disabled and mother's with children. Over a period of a couple of hours I saw numerous cars parking there non were disabled or had children. There were plenty of spaces available further away but no they couldn't be bothered and / or had no respect for others less fortunate. Without exception the cars that parked there were Audi BMW Range Rover with a large percentage of drivers wearing baseball caps say no more. Are baseball caps now a standard feature on those cars ?
 

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It happens all the time at our Sainsburys. Drivers wanting to use the ATMs which are directly at the end of the row of Parent and Child spaces just nip into the closest or even park on the no parking across the store entrance. It seems that a certain type of driver is unable to go more than a few metres from their car without feeling lost or inadequate. Is there some sort of invisible umbilical connection which feeds them the energy needed to access their wealth?
 

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This is a different situation, but arrogant parking is a pretty apt description.

I had to do some work at a client's office. To beat the traffic, I showed up early--well before the start of traditional office hours. That meant the visitor's parking lot was empty when I pulled in. I backed into a spot three slots down from a driveway. There is a parking station where you have to feed your credit card and receive your parking stub to display in your windshield that was located on wall on the other side of the driveway.

I was at the machine when I noticed another car pulling into the visitor's lot at a rate of speed I wouldn't have engaged in given the circumstances (tight 90-degree corners into a parking lot with the drive flanked by concrete barriers and walls). The arrogant driver (to use the terminology of this thread), stopped his car, threw it into reverse and zoomed into the number two slot directly beside me. I thought he was going to take out the passenger side of my car based on the speed and the angle he used to back into the space. It was just frantic.

Then as he was exiting his car he just ramrodded against my passenger side mirror, whipping it back with a terrible noise. At that point I pointedly and firmly expressed my displeasure at the lack of care he was showing my vehicle. His reply was that the mirror was on a spring, and it was meant to move.

I told him that if he couldn't be careful of other people's property he should have parked directly beside me, given that there was a huge empty parking lot available. Apparently he took offense to that saying I didn't have the right to tell him where to park. He got upset, called me a few names and huffed off.

I really didn't want to leave my car, but I was damned if I was going to move it to let him "win" (which I'll admit is a stupid attitude). I was worried about the car all day. Thankfully, when I finally left the client's (long after traditional business hours were over, because it was that kind of a job) everything was okay. I was really expecting to find it keyed or something.

I swear I don't know what's wrong with people.
 

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When my father was in his late 80s my sister (60s) would take him to the supermarket and park in the "parent and child" spaces because technically they were a parent and child. Father wasn't terribly mobile so the extra space helped!
 

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When my father was in his late 80s my sister (60s) would take him to the supermarket and park in the "parent and child" spaces because technically they were a parent and child. Father wasn't terribly mobile so the extra space helped!
My brother and I would often take mum to the supermarket as she wasn't very mobile and if all the disabled spaces were full we would use the parent and child spaces, same logic. A "job's worth" from Sainsbury's gave my brother grief about it one day :grumpy: He mentioned that the option was to go to another supermarket where there were more disabled spaces. (We did have a blue badge for her). Eventually he gave in and them park.

I think that often spaces shouldn't be specific for disabled or parent and child but labelled "Special needs" to make the most of available spaces. It still won't stop people who don't need to from using them though.
 

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Some years ago I was involved in a scout parade event where the local mayor was giving a speech etc. We cordoned off a corner of a car park for the parade and mayor to gather. The rest of the car park was almost empty being a Sunday. One person gave us loads of abuse because he couldn't park where he wanted and had to walk about 20 yards further than usual. He wasn't disabled, he was carrying a squash racket and heading for the sports hall. He got even more abusive when I suggested the extra exercise would help keep him fit.
 

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Personally I think parent and child parking spaces are fricking liberty. I would like to point out I dont park in them because thats the rules and generally I'll play by the rules but why the hell should mums (or dads for that matter) get any special favours because they chose to bring another brat into this already over populated world. They made that choice and should have known that the weekly shopping is going to take a bit longer now they've got to tow a screaming bag of snot around with them as well. Did having a baby suddenly mean your legs have stopped working and you cant walk as far as you used to? No is the answer but it certainly seems to inflate your sense of entitlement.

I can see only one good thing about parent parking spaces, they help to keep a group of selfish and lazy people confined to a certain area helping to prevent them from putting a nice crease in the doors of innocent victims as they open their doors wide enough to let out the fat ugly little skanks so they can run riot.
 

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His head is attached to his neck, so it will rebound after you socked him right in the chops. His point is what...? :D


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You can't believe just how badly I wanted to do exactly that. Actually, the way the confrontation was going, I was practically waiting for him to take the first swing.

Sometimes life would be so much easier if we didn't have to leave off the physical option of response.
 

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This is a different situation, but arrogant parking is a pretty apt description.

I had to do some work at a client's office. To beat the traffic, I showed up early--well before the start of traditional office hours. That meant the visitor's parking lot was empty when I pulled in. I backed into a spot three slots down from a driveway. There is a parking station where you have to feed your credit card and receive your parking stub to display in your windshield that was located on wall on the other side of the driveway.

I was at the machine when I noticed another car pulling into the visitor's lot at a rate of speed I wouldn't have engaged in given the circumstances (tight 90-degree corners into a parking lot with the drive flanked by concrete barriers and walls). The arrogant driver (to use the terminology of this thread), stopped his car, threw it into reverse and zoomed into the number two slot directly beside me. I thought he was going to take out the passenger side of my car based on the speed and the angle he used to back into the space. It was just frantic.

Then as he was exiting his car he just ramrodded against my passenger side mirror, whipping it back with a terrible noise. At that point I pointedly and firmly expressed my displeasure at the lack of care he was showing my vehicle. His reply was that the mirror was on a spring, and it was meant to move.

I told him that if he couldn't be careful of other people's property he should have parked directly beside me, given that there was a huge empty parking lot available. Apparently he took offense to that saying I didn't have the right to tell him where to park. He got upset, called me a few names and huffed off.

I really didn't want to leave my car, but I was damned if I was going to move it to let him "win" (which I'll admit is a stupid attitude). I was worried about the car all day. Thankfully, when I finally left the client's (long after traditional business hours were over, because it was that kind of a job) everything was okay. I was really expecting to find it keyed or something.

I swear I don't know what's wrong with people.
You are a much better person than me TS.

He would have returned to his car and found that the tyre furthest away from my car was for some inexplicable reason flat.
 

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You are a much better person than me TS.

He would have returned to his car and found that the tyre furthest away from my car was for some inexplicable reason flat.
Nah, I'm just a big chicken.

I figured if I did something to his car mine would have ended up damaged, and while I'm willing to risk staring somebody down who looks like he's going to take a swing at me, I absolutely have no risk-taking ability when it comes to somebody damaging my car. I mean the car can't defend itself. I can always duck or take a shot back or call 9-1-1. Besides, so far nobody has ever gone through with attempting to punch me out. I'm pretty sure a few have come close, but they never go for it, so I figure I'm relatively safe.
 

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Nah, I'm just a big chicken.

I figured if I did something to his car mine would have ended up damaged, and while I'm willing to risk staring somebody down who looks like he's going to take a swing at me, I absolutely have no risk-taking ability when it comes to somebody damaging my car. I mean the car can't defend itself. I can always duck or take a shot back or call 9-1-1. Besides, so far nobody has ever gone through with attempting to punch me out. I'm pretty sure a few have come close, but they never go for it, so I figure I'm relatively safe.
In reality I am probably that chicken too!
 

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Baseball caps as optional extras along with blinker delete on their new car order. It must be, because over here they are never used.
How long have you had parent parking spaces in the UK? We’ve got ‘car with pram’ spaces but haven’t yet regressed to ‘parent with children’ spaces.
How about introducing ‘no children in car’ only parking spaces? It might help reduce the number dents in my doors from idiot kids who haven’t been taught how to carefully open a car door by their idiot parents.
 

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Siverevo....re post #10.

Thank you, thank you, thank you. I could not have put it more eloquently or succinctly. Why the hell do these women think just because they’ve squeezed yet another mewling maggot into the world, this somehow raises them above the rest of us in the carpark?

In light of the recent climate change/extinction rebellion hooha, I was astonished how everybody managed to avoid the mere mention of the biggest bloody elephant in the room........over-breeding! It this planet wasn’t stuffed to the gunwales with humans, it might have a fighting chance.

Back on the carparking rant.....I’ve always felt all spaces should be the same size as mother/child ones - this would save many body panels from being damaged when some over-weight lump flings their door open to heave themselves out of their SUV. Cars are getting ever larger, while parking spaces remain Mini-sized.
 
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