I have a solution though ... be incompetent (in their eye's anyway) ...
... the washing ... right it's not hard, take the washing out of the dirty washing basket put it into the washing machine (sorted into colour whites), once done place some in the tumble drier and hang some up to dry ...
When trying to "help" I go into the utility room, and survey the scene, various piles of washing, so I take a best guess at what is clean and what is dirty (the best guess is always
... sort the washing into colours/whites ... however not all whites are "white" and not all colour are "colours" (rules for which are undefined)
... then, empty the washed load and transfer the clean clothes to either the tumble dryer or the hang it up, the rules for what goes where is constantly changing, when I ask what the rules are the response is usually "you wouldn't understand ..."
... then hang up the clothes in a way that they "won't dry"
I'm not allowed to do the washing anymore