Hi guys. I have been put in a little bit of a problem over the last few months. I met this girl when I worked at Swissport Stansted over 2 years ago, she was going out with one of the guys there and I got to know her. Anyway at the start of the year she became single. She was with him for 3 years on and off (he cheated on her and treated her like dog arse!).
Anyway on the 2nd of Feb this year we decided we would get together which I was really happy about cause I really liked her. Before I asked her out for a drink I confirmed it with my mate (her ex) that it was ok?? He now does that talk to me!! And at the time he said it was ok but it would be a little weird but now no longer speaks to me and has turned alot of my old work mates against me. But that is a different story.
Now on the day I picked up my GT I recieved a phone call from her saying "Can you get a test I have done one but it's come up pregnant need another one, to confirm it". Now this came as a little suprise to me but I was kind of happy. And when she took the test it was confirmed she is pregnant!
And on friday 2 weeks ago I told my parents. (Bare in mind we have only been together 3 months and we are both 21 and living at home with parents and both in paid full time employment.) I was mearly shown my marching orders and told to gather my stuff and leave. Heated argument lots of nasty things said but have had no contact since that day!!
So I moved in with her for a week which went fantastic (NOT!), I blame a little on her hormones being all over the shop but she really didn't want me there. I have now moved in and renting a room off my friend who lives 2 minutes round the corner.
Now for the best part!! I have been living here for about a week now and today was the first time I get to see her, she showed me little/no affection and seemed off with me. After a while I asked what was up, now after lots of bugging she blurted out! "WE NEED SPACE, I AM STILL IN LOVE WITH MY EX" Now I actually felt me little heart crack into two. I went a bit psycho and said a few nastys and she stormed out and I chased after her. She calmed down went home and I went back to mine.
I then later text her asking what is going on as I think its a little unfair her leaving me waiting to know whats going on. She then later replied with "I don't know but at the moment I don't want to be with anyone while I am feeling like this, I want to get over him before I start thinking about us!" Fair enough but it was this final bit that has upset me. She said "No matter what we do though I am keeping the baby"!!!!
Now I cannot deal with having a child with a mother that I am not with, I proposed to her on her 21st birthday to show that I am committed and want this. I love her to bits and this is killing me.
What a crap 2008 its been, lost my family, looks like I have lost her and my child will be a ******* which is not what I want!!!
Sorry to put this on everyone and any advice will be appreciated!!