Living with 'The Ex.'
It's driving me nuts, the girlfirend I mentioned in previous threads a few months ago is now my ex.
I own the house we live in, and as such I was her landlord. On break up (at the end of January) I wanted her out within a month, but due to a combination of her circumstances (runs a business from home as her only source of income) I have been lenient and allowed her time to BUY a property to move into. I only swayed after she basically got on her ahnds and knees, begged and claimed I would only be a 'decent' bloke if I let her do this.
It is now towards the end of April. Her moving is still a month away at least as contract exchange is only just approaching. I am going out of my mind.
I cannot move on with my life because she is still here. I decided to split with her because I couldn't see a long term future between me and a woman who refused to divorce her ex, not because I ceased caring about her. (Despite my own faults, she wanted to stay with me.... I cannot understand why anyway! but anyhow....)
I have been on dates, couldn't take anything further, my new job requires me to set up a home office, she is in the only room in the house that I could do that with.
She is holding up my life! But I can't get rid of her. I am going crazy.... I am losing control of myself.
Guys, I don't know what I am asking, but I need some kind of relief here...... I cannot go on like this.