The honest answer is I just dont know what I would do.
Am still in the middle of a very messy split with the ex and it hurts like hell. More than anything else so far in my life.
Lots of thoughts have gone through my mind about her seeing someone else during our time and I think I know what it would feel like if she had cheated.
Having said that, I truly believed that we were going to be together forever and not once did I see this end coming.
The truth is, none of us know what the future holds, nor how we would act in certain future circumstances. The past month or so has opened my mind to see that life is always unexpected and sometimes very hurtful.
If I cheated it would be wrong to others, but maybe right to me at the time. Maybe thats what my ex thought. Who knows.
With all this in mind, I choose the 3rd option 'other' because I really don't know.
Does this all make sense or am I having a 'moment' here???