Thanks for your good wishes, me and a neighbour noticed a car with a bit of a scuff on rear bumper, and on closer inspection found traces of red paint on bumper and trim. Tape measure out and sure enough his scuffs mach my scuffs, his trim matches my scratches etc. Knocked on door, full admission, signed statement, didn't know he'd done it !! Full insurance details are now mine and I know where he lives (across the road from me!!) As to finding one I like in autotrader I LOVE the one i've got already.