Women

Don't go down the HCH route Al Regret is the worst thing. Believe me.

A night in Manc should be enough. I'm there on Sat night with the lads. Target rich and just good fun. Eye candy and that's all.

what's HCH dude?

a night out in town is always good - just cos you have a telly at home doesn't mean you can't have a look in dixons window!!


EDIT: just worked it out - high class hooker. now that's something i would never do in a million years under any set of circumstances, that's for sure

PAY ...????????
I'd have to get as fit as Linford Christie to make sure I got my moneys worth before I'd pay

If money was not an issue - HCH could be seen an indulgence...

Like treating yourself to a nice pampering.....

I don't really like drinking champaign or eating caviar - but sometimes it's nice to have it just because you can...

Al if you got spare cash go for it - enjoy

Chris

Guys, cool it please.

sorry guys the HCH option just isn't my cup of tea. my morals generally belong in the gutter but that's one thing i could NEVER ever do, even if i was a single multimillionaire with less than a week to live

the nursey issue just gets more and more intense though. *al's head completely in bits right now*

Originally Posted by ACAPULCO AL

the nursey issue just gets more and more intense though. *al's head completely in bits right now*

Oh no Al, now what's happened?

nothing's happened mate, just getting more and more intense and driving me (and her) round the bend. utterly ridiculous. wish i'd never met her tbh

can't believe i'm talking about all this on here, but need to let it out somewhere or head will explode eventually options of who i can talk to about it in my circle of friends are pretty limited obviously as most of our friends are mutual. christ.

Cold shower Al, cold shower right now

tried that yesterday biggie, worked for about 5 mins

Go for a run and then a cold shower

just to put everybody in the picture (i've divulged enough info on here to get me shot already, so a bit more won't hurt...), the flirting stage has finished. it's now at cards-on-table, heart-on-sleeve stage between me & her. i now know she wasn't flirting just for fun, she's had a crush on me for the last 2 years and i'd be lying if i didn't admit it has been reciprocal. over the years i've found plenty of girls extremely attractive but have been able to just put them out of my mind quite easily and just tell myself to behave, but this one is obviously a bit different as it's not one-way traffic and due to family circumstances i see her a couple of times a week whether i like it or not

i'm not asking "what should i do?" here cos that's blatantly f*cking obvious seeing as i'm a married man with a pregnant wife, i just need to get it off my chest somewhere, sorry

It's not worth it Al, think of what you could lose for that moment of lust.

Stay away from her if you can.

Buddy of mine took the plunge while his wife was pregnant, he almost lost her and it made him realize what a fool he had been. The baby was born, she had kicked him out 2 weeks before her due date after she received a mystery phone call telling her about her hubby and this other woman. She did take him back but boy did he ever bleed for 5 months. All his friends wouldn't talk to him, he lost everything.
Be careful Al.

thanks CG

Originally Posted by ACAPULCO AL

just to put everybody in the picture (i've divulged enough info on here to get me shot already, so a bit more won't hurt...), the flirting stage has finished. it's now at cards-on-table, heart-on-sleeve stage between me & her. i now know she wasn't flirting just for fun, she's had a crush on me for the last 2 years and i'd be lying if i didn't admit it has been reciprocal. over the years i've found plenty of girls extremely attractive but have been able to just put them out of my mind quite easily and just tell myself to behave, but this one is obviously a bit different as it's not one-way traffic and due to family circumstances i see her a couple of times a week whether i like it or not

i'm not asking "what should i do?" here cos that's blatantly f*cking obvious seeing as i'm a married man with a pregnant wife, i just need to get it off my chest somewhere, sorry

Al I've had the exact same situation mate apart from Im was not married to the girl a very long story As I ended up marrying the "other Woman" & have wonderful sons from her but after 10 years of marriage it came to an end as she did to me what I had done top the previous GF!!! Just deserts for me yes but it hurt like hell as my boys went with her & it really ,really does your head in ie lost job etc etc .
Anyway Al I remarried after I said never ever again (have'nt we all said that at one time?) 4 years later, a great girl 14 years younger than me ,we've been married for 12 years now Al & I see my boys but the main thing is I have a 9 yr old daughter & if I ever ,ever get tempted in the slightest I recall the pain & confusion of when I lost my son's & tell myself there's no woman on this earth that can be worth me losing my daughter, I just could not do that to her or my wife now that I realize the pain & anguish I would put them through.
You have very good advice on here Al , a good buch indeed!

Here Al is my Angel & I'll never be so stupid to lose her for some tart who knows your hooked up already !!


AL it gets even worse mate!!

you could end up in my situation where you really know pain & anguish,here is a pic ,a bit blurry as I was so angry when I took it, of my 17yr old son with a swollen Eye & cut after his STEP FATHER has beaten him up, the anguish this has caused me is unbearable as I want to physically Kill the bastard but I took these photo's to the police who did'nt do much & now I am in the processs of a private summons on the F****** coward, if that doe's work then he's going to hospital & I'll be going to prison ,thats fine .
Al you have to look at the future here & not get carried away by a bit of flattery & flirting, your pain & suffering & that of your new baby will drive you mad mate !!
Once you hold your child Al you'll soon forget about this girl.