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View Poll Results: Do you do it?
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Yes definitely, wouldnt hesitate
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No, not even if my life depended on it
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Other (is there a third?)
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21-03-2005
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would you do it?
Imagine:
You are in a relationship, you could be married, living together, seeing each other on the weekends, whatever your perfect relationship scenario is.
You are offered an affair by a third party which is 100% guaranteed NOT to be found out about, you will not fall in love with this person and they will not fall in love with you, nobody will get pregnant or contract any diseases, it will just happen and that is it. It might happen once and never again, it might happen every day for the rest of your life but it will not ever affect your other relationship at all.
Do you do it?
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Why isn't this a public poll
You do realise that you have taken away most of the interest for some people that do this, don't you. What's left is lust, sexual desire etc from the looks of it with no danger. Nevertheless, betrayal is something I wouldn't stand for and likewise with never succumb to.
Unless it was Courtney of course  <-- surprisingly I don't even like making that pun here 
Last edited by kurzon : 21-03-2005 at 19:02.
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by kurzon
Why isn't this a public poll 
On a more serious note, women always finds out sooner or later that the guy is cheating. Whether guys is that perceptive is another story 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
d'oh i thought i had ticked the public poll box 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by Rosbird1
d'oh i thought i had ticked the public poll box 
Edited my first post a bit - but were you hoping to make it public
@Hogys - your signature is too big and is squashing your Avatar area 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
yep, wanted everybody to see how naughty/or not everybody else is 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by Rosbird1
yep, wanted everybody to see how naughty/or not everybody else is 
Shame it isn't, as it would have been insightful  Now we need people to be brave and honest in their posts. Starting with the Poll creator  I noticed someone has already opted other, with no explanation  Explain yourself, who ever you are

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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
maybe one of the nice and sexy and gorgeous moderators will be able to change it for me so its public
was that enough creeping?
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by Rosbird1
maybe one of the nice and sexy and gorgeous moderators will be able to change it for me so its public
was that enough creeping?
Can't be done I think  Can you imagine the danger of that
Please re-read my earlier post and answer the flippin question yourself

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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Nope Kurz, it's your screen that's to small... Oh bloody heck, do I really have to check it in the Modern skin then?
On another note, lets see Kurz, So far three people have voted, you know what you voted, I bet Rossbirds BF reads her threads on here from time to time, let's see; who might have voted differently than the rest 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by Hoygaard
Nope Kurz, it's your screen that's to small...
Well Dude  , even maximised on my widescreen laptop your signature squashes your avatar area
... maybe people won't vote on option 1 now, because Rosbird has scared them by implying it's going to be made public
Chickens I say  bl00dy chickens

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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
in Toronto Spider's thread about dog-tags there was a link with questions. One of the questions was to select 5 words from a list you would use to describe yourself. One that i selected was 'faithful', and i was curious to know how many other people would use the same word. Just thought id let you know why i made this poll
Oh yeah and i said 'no' cos i think if you cant afford someone the respect of being faithful to them, then they deserve better than you 
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Hmmm, not wanting to complicate this further, but I just read the no answer again. If that was to be taken literally "not even if my life depended on it", I think most partners would grant an exception in this case  However, afterwards you'd be faced with scenario's like that depicted in films such as Indecent Proposal
PS Hollyoaks is cr@p

Last edited by kurzon : 21-03-2005 at 20:04.
Reason: Thinking faster than I can type and missing words :o
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21-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Answering the question: no. Why? That's quite simple, really...
1st, because if you're in a relationship you wont think about a new relation.
2nd, if you think about a new relation, then, something is wrong with the first relation.
3rd, and if you think about that offer, then you should just quite your presente relation, settle down for a while and think what you really want for you and... for the other part! You'll never know if the offer is 100% guaranteed. As we know it has the same kind of guaranty as the first relation.
And finally... what's a relation with everything 100% guaranteed but, with no feelings?
No, I don't want it. 
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22-03-2005
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Re: would you do it?
Originally Posted by Rosbird1
Imagine:
You are in a relationship, you could be married, living together, seeing each other on the weekends, whatever your perfect relationship scenario is.
You are offered an affair by a third party which is 100% guaranteed NOT to be found out about, you will not fall in love with this person and they will not fall in love with you, nobody will get pregnant or contract any diseases, it will just happen and that is it. It might happen once and never again, it might happen every day for the rest of your life but it will not ever affect your other relationship at all.
Do you do it?
Is she fit?
Does she have big t1ts? 
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22-03-2005
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