Chris, sorry to hear about your unfortunate crash, but! as others have said your glass is half full and its only a piece of metal/fiberglass at the end of the day!
On the airbag front! can i pick your brain?
1.) Was your airbag light on?
2.) Do you know for sure that your airbag light was working ie: Previous owner may have taped up the bulb hole or removed the bulb?
The reason why i say this is that i have a pal who crashed his GTV into a fence full on frontal impact and his airbags did not deploy!
He was in a bad way for a while, but thankfully now he too is good to go.
There have been discussions as to wether the airbags will deploy if the airbag lights are on and from what i can gather is that they do NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So! if any of you fellows are driving with airbag light on,please! be careful
PS: Get the airbag light seen to as a priority!