I would say go with yer heart! I started thinking I would do nothing to mine but once i started doing little things it's now out of control!!!
I don't think I'll stop modding mine until I sell it. However, I will never stick on goofy bodykits, crappy aftermarket wheels or that kind of thing, only something in line with the original design such as zender kit or 17" tele's, 18" bbs ch. So far I have improved induction a little and fitted performance cat back exhaust. Have also fitted nicer lights and smoked indicators (nice against black or silver paint).
To err is human, but you need an Alfa to really screw things up!
The road to heaven is paved with old Alfa's.