That's interesting. The aux pully nut is always a struggle to get undone....
From the 1st time I did a V6:
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Like you I still don't have a satisfactory method of locking the engine. I generally do it the pikey way - Jack both sides of the car up, remove both fron wheels and jam the brake discs with a substantial screwdriver then put it into 6th.
Problem with this is it puts a lot of loading through the gearbox.
1. How the hell i'm i supposed to fit a torque wrench betwwen the chassis leg and the cam pulleys to tighten them? Do i need a spanner ended torque wrench? If yes then i have to wait till tuesday to borrow one from work.
Ideally yes but effing tight is an acceptable method.
2. The idlers that i have received dont include the screw and washer. Do i need to change the screw and washer or is it safe to use the old ones?
You'll find they generally get mangled when you take them out. New bolts are adviseable.
3. Water pump. Should i undo the bolts that connect it to the top bit that goes on the main water galery? or should i slide it all off as a single unit? Will the main water pipe stay in its place at the thermostat end as i pull the water pump?
Take the top off it. The pipe in the V is a PITA. Use some silicone lube on the o rings to help seal it when you put it back together.
4. What type of silver would be best for cam covers and plenum? IS brasso good to polish the intake pipes?
Brasso's fine. If your going to paint the covers you need to prime them with an etch primer of the paint will flake off within 12 months.