Had a go last weekend & the short answer is "D'oh"
Had got the wheels off, loosened the other mounts, took the gbox mount out & compared it with the autobox mount
The pictures show the problem.
The space between the bolt holes is noticeably smaller on the auto box mount & although there is a 3rd hole on the subframe it doesn't seem to line up. So I need to 2 do a little more research & see how other people have done it.
On the up side, at least I could see the current mount isn't hanging by a thread, and I was able to put some spacers under the front engine mount - I'm using the rear one at the front & it occasionally would tap the subframe, which now seems to be cured.