This is how mine looks:
http://i213.photobucket.com/albums/c...62008341-1.jpg
Green arrow is temp sender (to ECU)
Red arrow is temp sensor (to gauge)
Can't remember the figures exactly, but when cold the resistance of the sender is high (60Kohm?) and falls as the engine temp rises to about 2K.
If you connect a multimeter across it when the engine is warm you should see the resistance increase as the engine cools.
HTH,
Iain