Wow amazing response people I'm touched, but you prob knew that
Mama, sorry you had it so bad; your advice is much appreciated by my wife. The ginger bit was working early on but she cant face it now, wont say how I'm gonna trick her into having it coz she's looking over my shoulder right now.
Al, sorry Mrs Al was so bad it makes our probs seem very small.
Chris thanks for the possible cure but as my wife is needle-phobic, I'm going out on a limb here saying it maybe a NO NO.
And as for you Jimbo SHAME ON YOU